This is a second post on the guide Hello Chaps! This is Delhi. This week, I've taken a section of the guide which is replete with instructions on the norms that should guide 'making friends' with women in India. The text is particularly fascinating because wartime Delhi had created a situation in which large numbers of British (and American) servicemen found themselves in the city, in such numbers as never before. And they sought company during their recreational time. In this context, the guide prescribes a set of codes through which servicemen could distinguish themselves as proper British 'men', producing a gendered framework of rules and comportment in a foreign (read 'Oriental') environment. As the guide explains:
"...But this isn't England or the States, and "Hullo Baby" or "Hi Toots" are not the ideal opening moves for you here. Definitely not. Women who are accustomed to male friends outside their home circle and community aren't numerous and even the freest of them over here do not dispense with the formality of an introduction! Indian women don't as a rule go out with foreigners. But there are quite a large number of quire modern misses around the place - European, Anglo-Indians and evacuees who include Anglo Burmans, Burmans and others....Once you get to know the crowd who are ready to make friends with you, you'll find them a cheery, sociable lot, just as keen on a movie, sing-song, dance or picnic as the ones at home And families don't object to a well behaved boy friend. Here, as elsewhere you'll find people try to give you your due for what you are and not to pay too much attention to the rank badges you wear"
I'll leave you with an image from the guide of servicemen at the 'viceregal estate' in 1945.













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